Take a look at what I see on my kitchen counter every night before bedtime.
So many cups.
Cups with lids.
Except for a fresh cup at dinner time, I try to establish a one-cup-per-day rule. It is simple. Drink from a cup, then keep it for use the rest of the day. With a family of five, it just makes sense. Without this rule, my dishwasher's top rack would hold nothing but cups. But, as illustrated, even with this rule I have a plethora to deal with at the end of a typical day. Probably because I don't want to drink wine out of my coffee cup from the morning or send a kid off to school with a glass of water!
While I do believe this one-cup rule helps rather than hurts, it almost seems like a futile rule judging by the amount I still have stranded on my counter. This observation makes me think of other recent activities in my life that are examples of futility. Things that do not provide effective results and are not worth the time and effort to do. Here are some of those things:
- Shaving when I have goosebumps.
We are entering the chilly morning season. Showers are hotter and longer and, sometimes, goose-bumpy. Not the best time for a razor-sharp blade on the skin.
- Training the husband to pick up his clothes pile in the bathroom.
The result won't be long term. In fact, I give it an hour.
- Looking for a contact lens that is, in actuality, still adhered to the eye.
Yes, I was convinced it had popped out and bounced all over the bathroom counter/sink/floor; especially since I had already mauled my eye trying to determine if it was still there.
- Pointing out to the girls anything of interest while on a road trip. "Look at those Oreo* cows!""Look at that pink house!" or"Look at the monkey dancing on top of that firetruck truck throwing $100 bills at passersby!"........are all a waste of breath when the girls are so engrossed in their electronics.
- And not to appear too jaded, but lately my job search falls under this classification as well.
But it is getting a little depressing, no?
Listing everything that seems futile in life is not the way to go about living. At least not happy living.
I don't want to be an Ecclesiastes kind of a person. You know, "all is for naught" and that kind of thing.
I don't want futility to break me, to see me end up listlessly lying in the backyard hammock eating from a box of graham cracker Scooby snacks. (Don't ask.)
I want to live with an attitude of feasibility, not futility.
Feasibility makes the world go 'round!
Feasibility helps me to get up out of that hammock!
OK, and a ringing phone does too.
Crushing the futile,
*Oreo cows are actually Belted Galloways, a breed one won't find in too many places in the US, though there are a few farms with them not too far from where I live. Thanks to Wikipedia for this picture.